Tuesday, November 06, 2007


More Dr. Wagner. He is everywhere. I know Mom suggested to a friend who is doing a story for TV on PGD that she contact Dr. Wagner, so I may be putting another one up here soon.

This also shows the little fella watching his Hope for Henry DVD player.

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Dr. Wagner again!

"Death sentence." "He's at great risk of dying of overwhelming infection." Too true, huh.

But this kid Gregory looks good and I am sure Dr. Wagner will be able to save him. Today is his birthday. I wonder what he chose to get from Hope for Henry. In this video there is a picture of him looking bored in a hallway. I gotta make sure he gets what he wants. I'd pick an iPod iTouch if I was him.

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Monday, November 05, 2007


JPDS won the Sixteenth Street Kickball League Championships!

They beat a team that had not lost in THREE YEARS. Pretty cool. It was incredibly exciting. For the Pandas it isn't gonna get any sweeter than this.




I have a lot of catching up to do. I have pictures from Joe's birthday, a lot of baseball games and kickball. I will get them up soon.

Here is how we spent your birthday. I didn't cry all day. Strange.

First, we went out to the cemetery. Mom had a Pokemon coin that she left on your headstone. I am going to get some rocks custom engraved to leave behind on future visits. I have been thinking about this for a while and haven't found the right thing just yet. Maybe by deathday.



There were a lot of berries on the tree above your grave. I have never seen them before. I am pretty clueless.



Unfortunately, there is a new school being built right next to where you and Grandma are buried. It used to be trees and forest for as far as the eye could see and now this. We have had a good 5 years all to ourselves. Hopefully for you and for the kids at the school they'll plant a lot of tall trees between you.





We weren't in any particular rush, so Mom and I decided to explore the road that we go on to the cemetery. We took it in a totally different direction and it lead us through a lot of beautiful farm land. Too bad they couldn't build the school a little farther down the road.



The great thing about the road is that it dumped us out right where we wanted to go. The Olney Ale House. That is our post-cemetery destination. It is cozy and has a fireplace. It was a cold and smokey day, so this was just what we needed.



After lunch we went to JPDS to pick up your brothers. This is a piece of art that I found of Jack's hanging on the wall outside the gym. Mom went and checked out your plaque.





They are raising money for Henry's Garden. Guess who won the guessing of how many erasers are in the jar contest - Ari! Can you believe that. Amazing.





We then went out for dinner at your favorite restaurant, Cactus Cantina, with your buddies Ari, Simon and Jake.







You will note that we are still shopping at the Gap.


We had a Hope for Henry Board of Directors meeting on Friday. A lot of great people are helping out now. The meeting was at NAB, which is where I worked when you were born. They were nice to let us use their building.



That's you in your NAB onsie talking with Papa Sy. Wondering what you guys were discussing. You look like you were having a great time.

Mom did a presentation to let everyone know what we've been up to the past few year. I got to talk about this story that was in the newspaper the day before the meeting.

On the video that goes with the article you can see Dr. Wagner. He couldn't make the meeting 'cause he is very busy saving kid's lives. And, if you look on the bed of the kid, Nate, you can see he is being distracted/entertained by his Hope for Henry Foundation portable DVD player. How cool is that. Well done, you!

Nate is on the transplant floor at Fairview. He looks like he is in one of the end rooms, not sure if it is yours (11?) or Molly's. He has a really tough disease, but he is in the best hands possible.




Son's rare disorder leads mother to a desperate gamble

By Anita Manning, USA TODAY

MINNEAPOLIS — A little boy, 18 months old, trains his solemn brown eyes on visitors to his room here at the University of Minnesota Children's Hospital, then, after a moment, breaks into a smile.

He doesn't have a lot to smile about. His face is marked by sores and blisters. His right ear is covered with clotted blood. His right armpit bears an angry red scar. Under the bandages that cover his arms, hands, trunk, legs and feet are more scars, more blisters.



Nathanial Liao, called Nate, has a rare genetic disorder caused by lack of a protein that is needed to keep skin attached to the body. When he rubs his ear, the skin comes off. If someone lifts him from under his arms, his armpits blister. It affects skin inside his body, too. When he throws up, bits of his esophagus come up. The skin heals, but the repeated injuries leave scarring that eventually will cause his fingers and toes to web. In time, if nothing intervenes to stop his disease, he will develop an aggressive form of skin cancer. He will die young.

But now, Nate may have a chance. In a leap into the outer limits of medical knowledge, doctors on Oct. 19 transplanted bone marrow and cord blood cells from his healthy brother Julian, 3, through a catheter in Nate's chest and into his bloodstream.

Doctors hope the healthy cells will move into Nate's skin and correct the genetic defect known as epidermolysis bullosa, or EB.



EB affects about 20 of 1 million babies born, but the most severe form, recessive dystrophic EB, which affects Nate and his older brother, Jake, 4, occurs in about 2 out of 1 million births.

If the treatment works, even partially, doctors say they may be able to try it on Jake in about six months. Until Nate's transplant, it only had been tested in mice genetically altered to have EB. The affected mice have a life span of two weeks, but in experiments last year, researcher Jakub Tolar of the Blood and Marrow Transplantation program at the University of Minnesota found that three of 13 mice infused with cells from the marrow of healthy mice didn't die. Their blisters cleared up, and their skin grew the missing fibrils that anchor skin to body.

Through trial and error, Tolar had isolated the cells that produced the missing protein, known as collagen VII, and corrected the genetic mutation.

"I was stunned," says researcher Angela Christiano of Columbia University, who identified the gene for dystrophic EB. When she heard the news, she flew to Minnesota to see for herself. "The fact that any survived, three out of 13 is tremendous," she says.

Still, it is unusual to go so quickly from a small mouse experiment with a 25% success rate into a human trial. That it happened at all is due to the persistence of Theresa Liao, the boys' mother.

Both parents carry gene

Theresa, 37, and her husband, Roger, 44, an investment programmer, of Clarksburg, N.J., had never heard of EB and had no idea when their first son, Noah, was born in 1999 that they each carry the gene for it. With each pregnancy, there is a 25% risk.

Noah is healthy, but when their second son, Jacob, was born in January 2003, Theresa knew right away something was wrong.

"I said, 'There's something wrong with his feet,' " she says. "The doctors and nurses made a little wall so I couldn't see him."

Liao says experts told her all she could do was to keep Jake bandaged and comfortable for as long as possible.



"That wasn't good enough," she says, and she began a personal campaign to find researchers who would try to help and to raise money for their work.

She "was just not going to stop until she found something," says Madeline Weiner, a nurse educator in Chapel Hill, N.C., who works with the Liaos and other EB families. "She didn't just contact people, she pursued them. She didn't want to take a chance of missing an opportunity to help her children."

Theresa became pregnant with Julian, who was born in January 2005. A prenatal test showed he was healthy, and his bone marrow was a close, though not perfect, match to Jake's.

The parents decided to bank Julian's cord blood on the chance it could help Jake someday.

Then came her pregnancy with Nate. A prenatal test showed he had EB, and his marrow was a 100% match for Julian's.

By this time, Theresa had met John Wagner, head of the pediatric Blood and Marrow Transplantation Program and clinical director of the Stem Cell Institute here.

In spring 2004, he was in New York to make a speech on stem cells and had stopped in at the New York Blood Center. Theresa approached him and thrust Jake into his arms. "She said, 'Save my child,' " Wagner says. The baby "was bleeding, parts of his skin were coming off. I was really sort of shaken."

Wagner, who specializes in research on incurable diseases, says he often is contacted by desperate parents, but he couldn't forget the incident. "I came back from New York traumatized," he recalls. "I just couldn't let it go."

A chain of events had been set in motion. At a conference after that first meeting, Wagner met genetics researcher and EB expert Christiano, who told him about the mice engineered to get the disease and suggested the transplant experiment. With funds raised partly by the Liao family, Tolar began testing different types of marrow cells to see if he could correct the genetic defect in the mice.

Back in New Jersey, the Liaos were debating whether to carry on with Nate's pregnancy, grappling with the ethics of knowingly bringing a child with EB into the world.

They only had to look at Jake to know what lay ahead for the baby. Every fall, every bump means a bloody, painful new wound. Eating anything but soft foods can tear up his intestines, so he gets extra nutrients through a feeding tube implanted in his stomach. Fingers on both hands have fused because of repeated scarring. He has no toes. The full-body bandage wraps are changed every 12 hours, taking one to two hours.

Despite that, "Jacob is smart and funny, really wonderful," his mother says. The prospect of a second child with EB didn't scare her, she says. "I know what I'm dealing with."

But "my husband and I were on different spectrums" about the unborn baby, she says. "He didn't want to see him suffer. I didn't either, but at the same time, we found out that Julian and Nate were a six-out-of-six match," meaning all genetic markers match up.

Julian and Jake match four out of six. The closer the match, the lower the risk of rejection.

"Knowing we fought so hard for Jake, I felt this is the chance, this is the window of opportunity. If we threw this window away, what chance would Jake have?"

If ever there is going to be a cure for the disease, she says, someone has to go first. "God sent these boys to me for a reason. We've made it this far, and worst case, if we have a horrific result, and we have a mortality with Nate, I went down swinging. I'm not only doing this for my kids, but for everybody's kids. I did not do this lightly."

To reduce the risk that Nate's body will reject the transplant, he had to be given chemotherapy for eight days to essentially destroy his immune system.

"We have to eliminate it and then replace it," Wagner says. It's a risky procedure because "when we destroy the bone marrow, the patient is at risk for infection. He's susceptible to everything."

On that first day of chemotherapy, Wagner was nervous. He says he always is when a new, experimental treatment is about to begin. "I love what I do. But last night was a hard night, because at 4 in the morning, there's no turning back."

No guarantees

On the day of the transplant, Julian was sedated in an operating room at University of Minnesota Children's Hospital, Fairview, at 8 a.m. A doctor and nurse inserted two long needles through Julian's lower back into the bones of his pelvis and began withdrawing thick red liquid, the bone marrow containing blood stem cells. It took about half an hour to harvest 250 cubic centimeters, about a cup, of marrow. The liquid was processed to isolate the stem cells that would be infused into Nate that afternoon, along with the cord blood cells that had been frozen at Julian's birth.

"We know the cell responsible for correcting the (defect) is at least in marrow," Wagner says. "It may also be in cord blood. So that's the reason we're doing both."

He says there are no guarantees the transplant will cure or help Nate. "I've showed proof of principle this could work in an animal model, not in humans."

Wagner says Liao understands "it's possible Nate may not survive the next 100 days," but "she is also aware that if we don't do something, it will be a very difficult and shorter life for him."

The experiment also may point researchers toward treatments for other diseases.

"EB is a rare disease," Tolar says, "and in the history of biology and medicine, many cures start with a rare disease that then extends to others."

Whatever the outcome, Liao says the ordeal is worthwhile because something important will have been learned, some scientific advance toward a cure will have been made.

The strain of the treatment and being far from home is hard on all of them, she says. "But this is nothing compared to one day of EB."

Nate is expected to stay at the hospital for about three months. His doctors say he is doing well so far and improving a little each day.

Tuesday, October 30, 2007


I have been following the only other FA blogger for months now. I wrote to you about him back in January. He is from the Philippines, which is where Zhenny is from.

The blog is called "Save Jack Simbulan from Fanconi Anemia." Jack's dad was keeping everyone updated on his progress.

This is what he wrote yesterday.

Goodbye, Jack


It is very very hard to say goodbye. But it is selfish to keep you with us when you do not seem to get any better. We have given you the best that we could possibly give. We have begged God for mercy countless times. We’re really sorry that our best could not save you. You know we really really tried. And we know you did too. You were such a brave kid, with such tenacity and will to live.

We’re very very proud to be your parents. We feel blessed to have been part of your life. 6 years is better than 0 years. We regret that we were not able to spend a lot of time with you because we were both working. But we are thankful for the nice vacations together: Baguio, Palawan, Tagaytay, Subic, ChiangMai, Singapore, LA. It was money well spent with you.

We were really hoping and praying that we could beat FA. We were ready to beg from people and have in fact started doing that. But this disease is plain cruel. It has robbed you of energy, playfulness and laughter.

We have said to you all the things that you needed to know, especially in our last month in the hospital. You only need to remember that we love you. And even if you go away, that love will not change. Ever. You will always be our baby – the one who went through such odds, the one who has given our family so much joy and laughter in the last six years.

We’d like to say sorry for whatever shortcomings, for sins we may have committed knowingly or unknowingly. Sometimes, we take our role as parents too seriously.

Anyhow, rest our child. Go to God, Jesus and the saints. To heaven where there is no more suffering. We will always love you. Until we see each other again.

Love always,
Papa and Mama

posted by Juni (dad) & Babs (mom) @ 1:05 AM 13 comments

Thursday, October 25, 2007


Happy 12th Birthday Beautiful Boy. I haven't forgotten you. I have been writing and taking notes and taking pictures. I just haven't put them up here yet. I thought I would spend today doing that as a way to celebrate your birthday, but we were out and about most of the day.

Thursday, October 04, 2007





Memorial service honors life of Barry Simon
By VINCE DEVLIN of the Missoulian

As a rainbow rose up and disappeared into the low clouds over nearby Blue Mountain and a teddy bear snuggled next to the young boy's body in an open casket, Barry Simon's family and friends gathered Wednesday morning to celebrate his short life on this earth.

Two of Simon's classroom teachers, Tamra Reschke and Ann Smith, remembered him as a talkative and ever-smiling “whirlwind” and his P.E. teacher, Glenn Moffatt, said whirlwind was “an understatement.”

Through their tears, his old classmates described a friend who could be counted on to pick them up when they were down, neighbors called him the sweetest boy they'd ever met and one of his older sisters, Brittany, called him her hero.


“I couldn't have picked a better brother,” she said. “I'm older, but in many ways he was my big brother. I'm so proud of him, how strong he was, how in the final days, instead of crying, he laughed.”

Laughed? Less than 24 hours before he died, Barry Simon was not only laughing. He apparently was still chasing girls.

“When I was over to see him Friday night,” said Madelyn Roy, one of Simon's old classmates and best friends, “he said, ‘So, Maddy, do you have a boyfriend?' ”

As she mimicked his tone, it was clear Barry was ready to apply for the job if it was open.

The next afternoon, Simon, 13, died in his mother's arms after a five-year battle with a rare genetic disease - for which there is no cure - called Fanconi anemia. Most of the last two years were spent in Seattle in a grueling attempt to prolong Simon's life into his 20s or 30s via a bone marrow transplant.

For some of the 100 or so people who gathered for the service at Christian and Missionary Alliance Church in Missoula, a slide show highlighting Simon's 13 years - including pictures from Seattle - may have been their first glimpse as to what the boy had been through, and how hard he had fought, the last two years.

Simon left Missoula in August 2005 as a wiry 11-year-old but as infection after infection pounded him after the transplant, the medications he was on doubled his weight and inflated his head and torso to twice their normal size.

“Barry taught us all how to live life to the fullest,” one of his physicians from Seattle Children's Hospital said in a letter read at the service. “He never complained, yet he always challenged us to do the right thing for him and help him stay out of the hospital.”

Indeed, said his mother, Cindy Wamsley, his happiest days were his most recent, once the decision had been made to halt the daily blood transfusions and all but a handful of the medications that were keeping him alive.

That meant he could finally come home, to Missoula, where hundreds of people had sent him thousands of cards and letters during his stay in Seattle.

Simon stayed active up to the end, when a Hummer stretch limo arrived at the family's Missoula apartment on the morning of his death to take the boy and his family to Saturday's Montana-Weber State football game.

He'd gone to Little Grizzly football games two days before he died and spent several hours shopping at the mall the day before, but wasn't up to attending the Grizzly game, a trip arranged by Montana Highway Patrol Officer Richard Hader and the Montana Hope Project.

The same stretch limo returned to the apartment Wednesday to deliver Simon's family, including his mother and stepfather, Richard Wamsley, and sisters, Jamie Mullikin and Brittany, to the funeral.

Even after coming home to die, Simon had made new friends - from Mayor John Engen, who spoke at the service and admitted to filling Barry with “far too much caffeine and sugar” during an otherwise unsuccessful shopping trip to buy a Simon a ferret, to April Christofferson of Lolo, who told of meeting Cindy and Barry in a supermarket after they moved home last month.

“I was at the meat counter, Cindy was talking to the butcher, and from their conversation I could tell Barry was sick,” Christofferson said. “Barry came over and asked me what I was buying, and I showed him the salmon I had.”

The boy considered it for a moment, then walked behind the meat counter, grabbed something, came back out and slapped a 𔄚-for-1” label on the salmon package.

“Now you can get more,” he told her with a mischievous smile.

Before they parted ways, Christofferson had learned of the boy's desire to get a pet ferret, and vowed to find him one - which she did, in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho.

She delivered it two weeks ago.

One of Brittany's friends, who introduced herself as Mandy, told the crowd she had only met Barry once, “but it was like meeting an angel.”

“I said hi to him, and he said, ‘Come give me a hug,' ” she said. “I only knew him two hours, but he touched my life in a way nobody else has.”

A Missoula woman who met Wamsley and Simon at the Ronald McDonald House in Seattle while her son was sick, and whose son died in January, told the crowd she took great solace in the thought of “John and Barry being in heaven together, and saying, ‘Look at where we are.' ”

“Now,” she said, “they can be the little Tasmanian angels that they are.”

The Rev. Chuck Lee, chaplain to the Missoula County Sheriff's Department, officiated at the service, which included Simon's stepsister, Kellie Wamsley, singing “Heaven Must Have Needed a Hero” and Nita Hamilton Smith singing “Somewhere Over the Rainbow.”

“I never thought this day would come so soon,” said Madelyn Roy, the girl who had caught Simon's teenage eye. “Thirteen is unfair.”

Hader, the highway patrolman, marveled at “the dignity at which a young man, at the age of 13, had entered into the next world.”

“I was truly amazed,” he said.

And as the mourners filed past the open casket after the service for one last look at the boy, you knew Barry Simon had to be smiling someplace.

When her turn came, Madelyn Roy leaned in and kissed him.

Reporter Vince Devlin can be reached at (406) 319-2117 or at vdevlin@missoulian.com.


Looks like Adam Nash just had a birthday. I was trying to do something nice for Molly and it fell through. I feel terrible about disappointing her.

It is Joe's birthday on Saturday. He will be 6. A lot of festivities are planned. Later on I will show you what we got him for his birthday. I'll give you a hint: it has something to do with baseball.

Joe is proud that he is the best underarm farter in school - according to him. He says that Samantha Knapp is pretty good too.



October 1, 2007

BREAKING NEW GROUND

Beth Whitehouse

Oct. 1--The first child in the world born after PGD confirmed he would be a bone marrow match for his older sister is today 7 years old and in first grade.

Lisa and Jack Nash of Englewood, Colo., said they tested their son Adam's embryo to ensure he didn't have the bone marrow disorder Fanconi anemia his sister Molly had and to ensure he would be a tissue match for her.

Finding cure for their daughter

The Nashes speak publicly to people all over the world about what they did to cure their daughter.

"By us being public, other people learn about it," Lisa Nash said.

Fanconi anemia is similar to Diamond Blackfan anemia, the bone marrow disorder Katie Trebing has, in that the patient needs regular blood transfusions to stay alive. However, it is more dangerous. Molly was a few months from death when she had her bone marrow transplant in 2000 using blood from Adam's umbilical cord, Lisa Nash said.

Saving Molly's life was not the sole reason the Nashes had Adam, Lisa Nash said in a telephone interview.

"We had Adam first and foremost because we wanted a bigger family," she said. The Nashes said they would have had Adam through PGD to ensure he didn't have Fanconia anemia, even if it wasn't an option to also check for sibling matching.

"The fact that he was able to help her really was icing on the cake," she added.

Brother's cord blood used

Molly had a bone marrow transplant using Adam's umbilical cord blood the month after he was born. Her bone marrow is now free of Fanconi anemia.

However, there are still concerns about her health. "These kids are still very prone to certain types of cancer. We watch her very closely for head and neck cancers," said Lisa Nash, 41.

Molly has other physical ailments related to her disease. She is deaf in one ear, was born without thumbs, and is fed with a feeding tube, her mother said. Her thyroid failed -- a late-term effect of the chemotherapy that preceded the cord blood transplant -- and she recently had surgery to correct cataracts.

Molly is now 13 years old and is in seventh grade. "The spirit in her and the fire in her -- she is just an amazing, amazing kiddo," her mother said.

The Nashes have since had another child using PGD to avoid Fanconi anemia. Delaine Nash is 4.

The Nashes said they don't talk to the children about the role Adam played in Molly's survival.

"If you ask Adam what happened, he'd say, 'I gave Molly my blood so she would feel better.' Someday when they're old enough, we'll explain it to them," Lisa Nash said. "We want our kids to have normal lives and be just like everybody else."

She scoffs at critics who fret donor children such as Adam might one day feel they weren't really wanted.

"Adam, being the sole male in the family, he is the be all and end all," she said. He is "idolized" and "adored," she said.

Call for oversight

To anyone who worries taking a cell from an embryo -- as is done in PGD testing -- might prove harmful later, Lisa Nash said of her son, "He walks and he talks and he reads. The only thing we see is he can't play basketball, but neither can his father. If you want to attribute something to pulling off the single cell, he can't play basketball."

As for how much they would use Adam in the future to help Molly, Lisa Nash said she and her husband decided before Adam was born they would only use his cord blood and not his bone marrow to cure Molly.

"Adam was brought here because we loved Adam and not for spare parts," she said. The cord blood, she said, was "his garbage. He didn't need it any more. When it came to taking bone marrow from Adam, that wasn't okay in our eyes. That's where we drew the line."

So far, they haven't had to test their resolve.

Lisa Nash said she is a proponent of government oversight of the use of PGD technology. "The government should look at it and put some kind of boundaries and barriers," she said.

Perhaps, she said, insurance companies might also pay for the procedures if they were regulated. She said they spent $250,000 to have Adam, because they had to go through in vitro fertilization five times before it worked. They took out a loan to pay for it.


Here is a story about Christina Curkowskyj of Australia. She has FA, and like Amitai and Molly, she was saved by her brother who gave her new, good blood. I am glad it is working more now.

We were pretty close sweetie.

I don't know if I ever told you about another little boy named Henry who has Fanconi anemia. He lives in New York. His mommy just wrote and let us know that their new baby, Luke, is a perfect 6 out of 6 match for Henry.

Unlike us and Amitai's and Molly's parents, Henry's parents had Luke "the old fashioned way" which means without doctors helping try to make sure the baby was one who could save Henry and not have the disease.

Henry's family has been through a lot and really deserve this good news. Henry's dad was a firefighter who was at the World Trade Center buildings when they fell.



Christina smiles thanks to her little brother

Stefanie Balogh

October 02, 2007 12:00am

HER smile says it all. Nine-year-old Christina Curkowskyj wakes up and embraces every day, along the way teaching her family to do exactly the same

Christina, who has the rare and deadly genetic disease Fanconi's anaemia, was given three months to live almost five years ago after her bone marrow began failing.

Now she's a lively chatterbox in grade 3 who loves riding her new blue bicycle and is anxiously awaiting the arrival of a baby sister.

"I'm excited because I'm going to do a lot of work, to play with her -- and pick up after her toys," Christina said.

"But I can't keep her in my room."

Christina said she loves her brothers, Mykola, 7, and Thomas, 5, because they "encourage me".

In January 2003, Christina became the first Australian child with Fanconi's anaemia to survive a life-saving stem cell transplant from a perfectly matched sibling -- baby brother Thomas.

The ground-breaking transplant came more than a year after Christina's parents, Melbourne designer-baby pioneers Roman Curkowskyj and Tania Kutny, began their fight to create a genetically screened baby using IVF.

Thomas was conceived naturally while his parents were waiting for a decision that would allow doctors to screen IVF embryos to save their daughter.

He was a miraculous perfect tissue match with his sister.

The couple continued their battle and in the process helped change the rules for other Victorian families with terminally-ill children.

Mr Curkowskyj's IT job has taken the family from Melbourne to scenic Markham, on the outskirts of Toronto, Canada, where they expect to spend the next two years.

Christina has no serious illnesses, recently overcoming a tumour in her liver and facial paralysis from a brain infection last year.

She no longer has bone marrow failure, but still has Fanconi's anaemia, which leaves her susceptible to developing a range of cancers.

Christina has had more than 40 operations, including the transplant in which stem cells were taken from Thomas's cord blood and injected into Christina in the same way a blood transfusion is done.

She has also had skeletal and heart surgery.

Christina is being treated by a team of 13 specialists and goes weekly to rehabilitation clinics.

She has a teacher's aide and a nurse at school to help with her hourly tube-feeds, and at night she is fed by a machine. Despite the daily medical hurdles, Christina and her family are determined to make each day count.

"It's a good time," said Ms Kutny, 42.

"She's just overcome having the tumour in her liver.

"We got over that hurdle using Chinese medicine, because Western medicine didn't have any hope for us.

"We're out of hospital and life is good, and now we have another one on the way.

"As long as we are out of hospital we're happy.

"It's a time that you cherish.

"We go a lot to hospital for clinics and she is always afraid about: 'Am I going to stay?' "

After years of medical wards, Christina knows well the difference between being in hospital and at home.

"She lives it up," Ms Kutny said.

"She wakes up and she's like, 'It's a great day, I'm not there (in hospital), and I'm here and I'm here with my family and I've got my baby coming, (and) I've got my brothers'.

"She appreciates what she has, so she's learnt a lot too in her little life.

"From the time she was born, we appreciated that it was fragile -- life -- and we made a commitment that we would make the most of it."

Mr Curkowskyj, 44, said Christina was "the biggest gift we could ever have".

"She's taught us to live for today and to be grateful for today," he said.



Happy family: (from left) Tania Kutny, Christina, Roman Curkowskyj, Thomas and Mykola in Canada. Picture: Stuart Ramson


Getting this email this morning put a smile on my face.

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We sent a brand-spankin'-new video iPod, called an iTouch, iThink, to a kid, Jacob or Coby Bennett, who was one year ahead of you at JPDS.



He was in Jake's second grade class. He is now at Children's Hospital because he is sick. I hope watching movies and listening to music on the iPod helps him as he goes through his chemotherapy.

I was thinking about riding my bike and dropping it off myself, but I am a little maxed out on sad, partly because of Barry dying, and I didn't really know how walking into a hospital would feel.

This picture of Coby and his brother reminds you of who?



A lot of our friends, like Linda and Sid, know Coby and his family well. I know he'll be okay, but I am sure this is hard.